Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Hey yal! i took this test; Are you a Secure Lover? and I have a Preoccupied relationship attachment style.

it stated:
You tend to worry about being abandoned in your romantic relationships. You have a strong desire for closeness, but may feel that others seem unwilling to get as close as you would like. It's likely that your openness to relationships is one of the first things potential partners notice about you. Attachment style begins in infancy with the interactions we have with our parents or primary caregivers. Through these early relationships we begin to understand the dynamics and patterns of close relationships and we carry this perspective into our adult relationships.

1. It's important to me to spend quality time with others.
strongly agree

2. I often worry about what other people think of me.
agree

3. I tend to want more closeness than others usually do.
Agree

4. I sometimes worry that my romantic partner will leave me.
Agree

5. I find most people to be trustworthy.
Strongly Agree

6. I'm drawn to potential dating partners who:
Gradually share more intimate details about themselves

7. I tend to invest a great deal of my emotional energy in my romantic relationships.
strongly agree

8. I'm not always confident about my own judgment.
strongly agree

9. I feel happy with the person I am today.
strongly agree

10. I would prefer a job in which I work closely with others.
Strongly agree.. but what would it be?

11. It would offend me greatly if someone I was on a date with flirted with the bartender.
strongly agree

12. I often think that if people really knew me they wouldn't like me.
Disagree

13. I'm more drawn to potential romantic partners who are:
Somewhat cool and self-contained

14. When I'm under stress I tend to seek support from friends or family.
agree ...mostly friends, best friends

15. I frequently think about romantic relationships, even if I'm not in one.
agree

16. I have a difficult time saying good-bye.
agree

17. I often feel that others understand me.
agree

18. In a romantic relationship, I prefer to spend all of my free time with my partner.
strongly agree

19. Most people are only out for themselves.
Disagree

20. I'm drawn to people who want their romantic relationship to meet all of their needs.
agree

21. I'm more likely to choose someone to date who has a:
Fear of abandonment

22. I'm uncomfortable meeting new people.
Disagree

23. Very few people really know and understand me.
disagree

24. I don't usually tell people very much about myself.
disagree

25. I work hard to please others.
agree

26. Without a romantic relationship, my life feels empty.
disagree

27. I let myself be vulnerable to others.
disagree

28. I'm more drawn to potential dating partners who:
Focus primarily on their close relationships

29. Large social gatherings are usually a waste of time.
disagree ...it's not a waste of time if you're meeting your pals

30. Under stress I tend to be highly emotional.
agree ...it's true >.<


31. It's very important to me that other people like me.
agree

32. I don't mind eating alone in a restaurant.
strongly disagree ...unless the person i'm eating with is in the washroom ;' ]

33. People are often more distant than I'd like.
disagree

34. I tend to be very jealous.
disagree ...never jealous, more like envious >.<

35. I'm drawn to people who seem to really need me.
agree

36. Other people usually don't share as much about themselves as I would like.
disagree

37. When people I care for move away, I worry that I'll never see them again.
agree

38. I am very compassionate.
agree

39. I tend to be extremely nervous on a first date.
agree

40. I'm drawn to people who won't leave me.
agree

41. When I'm not in a romantic relationship, I tend to get very lonely.
not at all

42. I'm often afraid that something bad will happen to someone I love.
agree

43. When I'm sad I:
cry by myself

44. I'm comfortable taking risks because:
I know that I have close friends or family who will support me, even if I fail (not sure about my mum though, i'm sure she would nag)

45. I find trusting other people to be:
difficult ...unless i know their personalilty like my classmates or my best friends

46. Which of the following most closely reflects how you feel?
I do not need love to be happy

47. I'm able to be a better partner now than I was in the past.
Strongly agree

48. I'm making progress on my own relationship issues.
strongly agree

49. I have more confidence in my relationship skills than ever before.
ah... this is hard! agree

50. I'm more drawn to potential dating partners who:
Play their cards close to the vest

51. I'd prefer to have a romantic relationship with someone who was interested in:
Spending as much time as possible with me




Wednesday, January 24, 2007 how do i live without you . Y

Tuesday, January 23, 2007


Happy Birthday to you!
Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to Che Che!!!
Happy Birthday to you!


HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADELINE CHE CHE!




Tuesday, January 23, 2007 how do i live without you . Y


Hello!
Sorry that I've not blogged for so long!
Sorry!
These are the pictures from my holiday in
Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia.
Please enjoy!
=']
My cousin talking on the phone.
But on the other hand, her dog is anticipatingly
waiting for her to feed her the christmas doggie
special as her dinner.
My cousin Sarah, 5 yrs old.
Hahaha, can't wait to open her presents.
My uncle Tony, looking in dismay.
Waiting for more presents from us young people.
Or maybe even from Santa Claus.
Hahaha, my uncle Tony
getting the turkey ready!
Yummy!
My delicious christmas dinner!
Envious right? Want it?
Too bad! Swallowed liao.
The family picture on my aunt Monica's
birthday celebration.
I'm the one in Green!
hahaha! Pretty right?
Hahaha, me in my cousin's bathroom mirror.
The three red girls on Christmas eve!
Nice right the picture!?
So nice lor!
But this Aishah dare say;
"No lor! Got boobs sticking out!"
So freaking BAD!
My logo drawn on the sands
of Damai Beach,
Mount Santubong!
Me, getting my shot of fame
with my poses.
But very drastic right?
hahaha!
another family picture
but this is taken on Christmas Eve.
I'm the one in red shirt & green shorts.
me & my cousin Sarah
taking pictures at Damai Beach,
Mount Santubong.
me & my cousin Andrea
taking pictures at Damai Beach,
Mount Santubong.
Me & my cousin adeline
in the chalet mirror
in Damai
The lover crabs on Damai Beach.
Me in the Damai's Chalet's bathroom mirror.

my cousins Angelina & Andrea & Me at the beach!
Me! i LOVE my cousin's shades!

LOOK! Andrea inspires to be a model!
or was it to be a doctor? or a cashier?
=']
don't know!
Cute right? OF COURSE!
HeeHeeHee!

This picture even cuter!!!
HaHaHa!
Sarah can't make her mind up to
smile at which camera!
But in the end, she chose her mummy.
Look at the waves! So nice!
But we weren't allowed to swim in it cos'
the RED flag was up! So sad!




Tuesday, January 23, 2007 how do i live without you . Y

Monday, January 08, 2007

Hell! And lesson of Chinese and "Lao Shi"'s already giving homework! Furthermore it's composition! Haiyo! Just finish. Gosh! No no privacy in my room if my maid is home! HELL away with her!!! Dont care her! Don't Like Her! hahaha!
than today, after school... got don't know who came into the class to check if there's any books under the table! Gosh! i not only got books under the table! it was also on the chair! God! i really REALLY, 真正地 don't her to take any of my books or files away. Gosh! God! please! Please! Don't do this to me!




Monday, January 08, 2007 how do i live without you . Y

H E L L O.

stefanie WELCOMES you.


M E.

STEFANIE
051193

Loves music to the core, music gives her life. She absolutely loves badminton too. She's a bit of an alcoholic cause she just loves red wine. She's a little weird cause she laughs a lot and almost everything she has is orange so you know what's her favourite colour. She think coffee is the best beverage ever and she thinks her bestfriend Ryan is hotter than you!

fannie-lau@hotmail.com

T H E L A U G H S.



L I N K S .

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shreya [x]
sean [x]
SI radio [x]
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STEFANIE :D [x]
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zhuo ling [x]

M U S I C.

THREE DAYS GRACE!
SHERWOOD
ANBERLIN
:)

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